I was a barista for 13 years, up until this past year. Being friendly, flirty, motherly IS the job - what kind of tipper are you? Do you tip well? We baristas depend a great lot on our tips as income and you bet we're friendly about getting tips

Watch out - you might just wind up outing yourself from your favorite coffee spot. Don't be a creep. Old creeps frequent coffeehouses and every barista knows it.

As an aside, I've been married for 30 years to a man 16 years my senior. While we did raise two wonderful children, our marriage is messy. The age difference really wasn't that big of a deal at first, but as the years have passed the generational discrepancy is a major issue. And as I look back I wonder WHAT on EARTH was with a 34 year old man who asked an 18 year old girl out? EW. no wonder my family was alarmed! What was with him was, he never matured past the age of about 25. To this day my husband lives on his wealthy family's income.

How old are you mentally, emotionally?