Unfortunately my dad is still in hospital, going on a week now, and I've gone as far as adding my name and number to list in case of emergency. I don't trust this woman, my mother, would let me know if something were to happen, heaven forbid. It's been so stressful and I've been on pins and needles, can't eat, sleep, when I call my dad and he doesn't answer I immediately think the worst. I just wish I could call my mother for updates and to have someone to lean on during this time. I could never, ever treat my children the way she has been treating me.