So I'm not really close to a relationship so this is strictly hypothetical. The problem is I have an extreme guilt complex about bringing another individual into my empty space. All my life I've been a lone wolf and when I think of exposing anybody to this lifestyle I run back into my closet. My history is one of a wandering nomad - I've been doing everything alone for so long I don't have any way of knowing if somebody would be okay with being so isolated from the rest of civilization. I'm very flexible, if somebody wanted to hang out with their friends I would be fine with it - just don't expect me to go there. Also I'm getting fairly long in the tooth so evolving into a new species probably ain't gonna happen. Bottom line - has anyone else had success with another individual even though your social world consists of long solo travels? I can't really get around this issue i.e., I don't know anyone else that has my lifestyle and a successful relationship.
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