I had to add that I really don't understand how you can say his thoughts weren't "realistic, accurate or true". If that's how he felt and what he thought about a relationship then it is realistic and accurate and true for him. Does it mean that only your thoughts on the matter are true? But it takes two to tango. By the same token he can say your perception of a relationship as harmonious and perfect is inaccurate and untrue as he didn't see it that way.

By the way 1.5 is s very common length of a relationship. initial excitement wears off a bit so relationship either goes to a deeper level or it ends.


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