It can be hard and take a while after school, getting use to the working world. I remember how depressed I was at my first job (and half my second). But it does get easier, just like it was hard when we were young children going off to school? Eventually some of the routines wear off on us so we get use to the tasks and feel more competent doing them and get to know some of the people and that they don't bite, etc. We change to another job and, as so very scary that is (I spent 5-10 years in my 40's taking part-time jobs and quitting them, just to get those two sequences easier?) we live through it. Experience and practice. It can take some of us a bit of time. I'm 65 now though and looking back, it's okay. Think of how scary it is on an amusement park ride or watching a scary movie but it turns out okay. Life can be like that and when we get use to it, we can use the feelings to make it more comfortable/fun instead of so scary.