You aren't alone. For a long time, I have been a loner myself, but right now I'm trying to slowly crawl into the sunlight by establishing friends who I alone, and not my immediate family members, only know personally. I want to go one step at a time, and if I can help out someone despite my lone wolf mentality, that will really go a long way. As of current, I have a Facebook friend who is now in college, and I want to help her out like a brother helping out his younger sister.