Some comments on here upset me as they seem to blame me for everything.

Our relationship really was harmonious without any fights. He easily gets frustrated but I always took away his frustrations with humor or any other way I could.

He has battled depression in the past, and he tends to fall into depression in periods of high stress levels. These past few months have been stressful due to the move, a new job, things going on at his former job, us filing the paperwork to get married, etc.

The cutoff came very sudden. Like I said, he booked a $1,500 flight to come see me 6 days before he suddenly wanted to break up.

If that's his decision, then fine. I was just wondering what could be going on, because I feel like I am not to blame for this. I haven't done anything wrong; I have even supported him to accept the job offer when he was in doubt about it.

Please look at the bigger picture instead of pointing fingers at me.