Hey y'all!
So I've been seeing this guy for about a month now and over a week ago he asks me to be exclusive. He works shifts 4 on 4 off and I have two kids so I don't get a lot of opportunities to see him. Well this weekend I spent the night Thursday and we went for breakfast Friday and then we went and played 9 holes of golf on Saturday. He told me I'm too clingy because I got upset that he didn't invite me to a house warming party on Saturday night after I was done work. Am I crazy for thinking that the guy who asked me to be exclusive would want me to be around? To show me off to his buddies? I understand he needs time to himself without me, but I figured when I'm at work and when I have my kids would be enough. He invited me to a wedding in August and said he wants me to meet his parents before the wedding. So Friday he spent the entire afternoon/evening with them and this would have been a good chance for me to meet them after I was done work at 9pm but nothing. So out of the last 70 hours I spent 15 with him (6 of which we were sleeping) and I'm clingy! He's the one who said he wanted me to meet his parents. And he's the one who said that he would see me every day of he could. So am I wrong to think that this is the green light to want to spend time with him? He could have invited me over for an hour on Friday to meet his folks. He could have invited me to the house warming party after I was done work (and he'd still have had 4 hours to hangout with his buddies without me before I was done work). And he'd still have had all Friday afternoon, Saturday afternoon, all day Sunday and all day today to himself.
I'm thinking there might be a bigger issue that he's not telling me. It just doesn't make sense to me. HE asks ME to be exclusive, he tells me he wants me to meet his folks, he tells me he'd spend every day with me if he could, he's house shopping and sends me a pic of a place and asks me if I could see myself living there.... But I'm clingy??? I'm just blindsided and confused and don't know what I did wrong! He can't wrap his head around the fact that I'm upset about More than just one night with his buddies. He thinks it's all about the house warming party. But I have explained over and over that it's because i don't get a lot of free time so I want someone who will take advantage of every chance he gets, who will want to spend as much time with me as I do with him, and when he says corny crap about being together all the time and meeting his parents I think that he actually means it! I let him set the pace!