Lasse,
Sorry - apparently I came across all wrong. I was NOT passing judgement, nor was I trying to upset you in any way.... SINCERELY.

I was just trying to help you see that you deserve nice things. Not hurtful things.

Sorry for upsetting you. It really wasn't my intent. I hope you will stay here at psych central. OTHER people here are very nice. And I will self-ban myself from your future posts to ensure that I do not upset you again.