okee-dokee....we can meet in the middle!

so hmmm....have you told T that you're very different in the real world than in therapy? maybe there's just something about therapy that brings that side of you out more?

& i'm with you on the faxes 'n emails! why shouldn't you have sent them. are they or are they not providing a service? they should be held accountable.

my only suggestion might be that (and i don't know that this is the case) sometimes in the heat of the moment we write things a little too harshly or use language we shouldn't, etc.

maybe try writing the email and waiting 30 minutes...reread it and edit if needed...? just a thought (that's saved me a lot of grief at work on more than one occassion!!)