Shadix, if you're fixated on it then get rid of it. But honestly, if someone was going to be that bothered by your mole do you even want to spend time with them? If your answer to that is "yes" then well.... I really wouldn't know what to say to that!

Any relationship starts with a superficial attraction - no one will have a deep connection with someone else until they know them. And guess what? Plenty, PLENTY of people with "imperfections" can still attract someone to them before there is any deep connection. Because they put themselves out there. They interact with others instead of just watching them.