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Originally Posted by A Red Panda
Shadix, if you're fixated on it then get rid of it. But honestly, if someone was going to be that bothered by your mole do you even want to spend time with them? If your answer to that is "yes" then well.... I really wouldn't know what to say to that!
Any relationship starts with a superficial attraction - no one will have a deep connection with someone else until they know them. And guess what? Plenty, PLENTY of people with "imperfections" can still attract someone to them before there is any deep connection. Because they put themselves out there. They interact with others instead of just watching them.
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Trust me I would get this thing removed in a heartbeat if I could. But like I said, there is apparently a complication because my skin has tendency to scar. If I get it removed, there is a chance it would leave a visible scar. I basically got shafted.
Why would I pass a negative judgment on a girl because she isn't attracted to a guy with moles? People can be attracted to whatever they want. Yes I would still want to spend time with a girl of she felt that way. But the question is, would she be ok with me showing interest in her even though she finds me and my mole physically repulsive?