Your thoughts about your T's private life are fantasy. Imagine that your own father was a therapist. His clients might see you in the same way as you see your T's daughter. Now would you say you had it so good? The truth is, they are just as human as anyone else. And your T probably doesn't have the perfect life that you imagine. People don't share what goes on in private. His daughter may not feel as loved as you think she does.

I once told my T that I wanted to be one of her kids. I felt they were so lucky to have her as a mother. Well, she kind of chucked and told me that just that morning one of her kids said he wished that he lived somewhere else! She said they don't always think she's the greatest mom, and I'd probably change my mind if i came to live with her. I had to laugh. It's so true.