Thank you guys. I think I am not explaining myself well. I am not afraid he will not believe I know he will. I am scared he will dislike my parents after I share. I'll give you an example. My bf's dad wAs violent alcoholic who beat my bf up.

Bf eventually ended up in abusive marriage and abusive relationships ( as women abusing him including physically abusive). I am the first woman who isn't abusive in any shape or form. He is confident professionally but is a very insecure in other aspects. That's why. When he told me he was physically abused by his father I thought to myself it's good the guy is dead long ago because my blood was boiling. I would hate that dude

My parents aren't neArly as bad but there are a lot of painful things that also made be insecure with men. My bf might very much dislike my dad upon hearing my experiences. That's what I worry about.

My relationship with my folks is good, so that's not an issue. He will have to be around my parents if we stay together

My skeletons must come out of the closet unless I want yet another superficial relationship. No more

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