I would tell him as Healing4me a heads up that he might be angry about what you have goine through... but the reality is your not living with them now, You decide when and how much time you spend with them( I think you mentioned this before that you have good boundaries)

I remarried 10 years ago.. My husband has a rough idea of my home life and all that but I didnt hack up truck loads of details. Im not the same person I was back when certian things happened. I worked through alot of things and I need not to bring them out front and center again, It won't help me nor him.

If you feel the need to share a lot make sure you give him a heads up so if/when hes meets dear Mom and Dad he wont want to slug them