Thank you guys. I have a lot of fears. I worked on resisting attractions to men who are like my dad. This is the first man in my life who isn't like my dad. To all honesty if this isn't it I need to be probably done. lol I have fears of it not working and fears of it working. I am constantly paranoid about missing red flags or going too fast or going too slow ( we didn't have sex yet as I am paranoid about getting involved and missing red flags and he is ok waiting)
The thing is we are both insecure in relationships. We are supportive of each other insecurities. But I understand where his come from because he shared. I didn't share about childhood and my parents marriage and how it effected me. He kind of thought I was abused by men but that's not really it.
I told him I have hard time sharing about childhood because my parents are around while his is gone and he says he won't pry.
Thank you guys you made me think more. I have t appointment on Thursday and will be talking
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