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Originally Posted by krisakira
Well, knowing now that she does have a lot of issues that could very well be caused by ADHD or something else, wouldn't be able to say without knowing more details... It still doesn't change the fact that she just doesn't want help. The part about "I don't need your help" and the contradicting "you're my life saver!" sounds a little like borderline personality disorder, because in BPD, views of people can change drastically one day to the next. One day you're her best friend, the next you are her enemy, for example. But I can't do more than just speculate because I am not a professional and don't know her. If she doesn't need YOUR help, would she be willing to see a professional for help?
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Thank you so much for taking the time to read my post and reply
she definately does have issues but she's in denial it is almost as if she's accepting them rather than questioning why she has so many? Exactly and i think it could be because she believes she's out grown ADHD which is impossible it's not curable all you can do is improve it . Is personality disorder a comorbid of ADHD because you have literally summed her up in a nut shell. Ill look into personality disorder and see if that could be a possibilty. She is convinced her ADD has worn off and she no longer has it which is obviously not the case, her life contradicts it with all the struggles and issues.
Honestly i don't think she would she doesn't like being told things straight you know the truth hurts and i'm trying to determine if this is ADHD, low self esteem or something else entirely. I think you could be right about personality disorder.
Thank you again
Claire