I suffer from abandonment issues, in a strange way too... I am dismissive avoidant with most people.
My boyfriend, PTSD and Bipolar, ignores me for extended periods when he is down. I understand that he needs space but after a few days of no communication I feel like I want to die. The cycle is set, I crave his attention and it pushes him away even more.
I dont know what to do now, but I imagine the worse scenarios in the future if we should start a family.
Does it make sense for us to continue?
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