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You are capable of loving someone as they are but also expect to have your own needs met. It wouldn't be changing WHO he is, he'll still always need more space when he's in a depression. But he can learn to change his behaviour so that he doesn't alienate you and make you feel unloved. That doesn't change who he is as a person... it's just that he can and should learn better ways to cope with his depression.
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"The time has come, the Walrus said, to talk of many things. Of shoes, of ships, of sealing wax, of cabbages, of kings! Of why the sea is boiling hot, of whether pigs have wings..."
"I have a problem with low self-esteem. Which is really ridiculous when you consider how amazing I am.
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