Abilify was a bad med for me. I had the aka thing (yeah that word is so freaking weird i can never remember how to spell it) and it was just so awful.
i also gained weight. I since did the genetic testing i talked about here
https://bipolarfirst.wordpress.com/2...e-gamechanger/
and found at that I am predisposed to the weight gain and to the side effects of APs so I was right! and now science has proven it. wahoo.
Good luck with your decision!