I think talking about it to your T is important. Let him show you he, his life, his daughter, are not and will never be perfect. I used to think my T was - but she has shared stories over time that show she is just like me, human.
The role he plays as a therapist, I'm sure is completely different then he is as a father. I'm sure he yells, makes mistakes, says things he regrets, and has a family life like the rest of us. But all we see our therapist as is the role in which they play for that hour time, and they are so much more.