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Originally Posted by Big Mama
I am female and like to watch porn from time to time. I think the industry has changed some. The notion of female friendly porn was just not an option some years back. It was made for males to view. Not females are starting to join in the viewing. I think my view of porn is different then most. Due to sexual abuse and rape I had very VERY bad images of sex and little belief that sex could be a good thing, and almost no idea of what sensual loving sex should look like. Upon the advice of a T, she suggested several sites I look into to "see" what sex can look like. She also advise me on topics to avoid and things NOT to look into. That was some of the best advice I ever received.
Sex is not a bad thing, in fact it is a good thing, and it took soft porn to help me see that. Sorry if that all got a little off topic.
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I am eternally grateful that women are becoming consumers of porn. I honestly despise the usual macho, tattooed, ugly, rude rough guy that throws a girl around, bangs her for 40 minutes non-stop like a jack-hammer and then finishes on her face without so much as a kiss; much less any kind of sensual foreplay for the lady. This kind of porn is why so many straight women enjoy lesbian porn.
The old stuff is unrealistic and confusing as hell for anyone who is not already sexually experienced. And for those of us who do have some experience, it's just ugly.
So, to answer the OP, yes, I think the industry is changing (actually booming) but i think it's growing in every direction; not just one. And I think that's a good thing because everyone can find what they want/need.
For me personally, I say hurrah for the ladies! If there is any porn that is "wholesome" and more guilt-free, what they are asking for is pretty close and it's what I like!