It depends on what's happening. Right now, I am (Susie). I'm the main home bounded...lol
My big deal is love and calmness and playing on these forums. If we are eating gourmet, that's because of Sarah. The rest of us just uses the microwave. Lol
When it comes to work, like stepping out of this house, Steve jumps on it and motivates the group, the Ace Driver takes over if we are late, Steven buddies up to the client, and Carpenter does the work...basically.
Of course I've showed up at work to try some of it....it's like so hard, but I learn a thing or two.
And our day continues. So it's like, all the daily main players are like mains of their expertise. I so wish that we knew who we are all suppose to be. That was destroyed in the first few years of life. Our traumatic abuse lasted 18-25 years. So we are who we are....all of us!