Looking back I can see how my early, undiagnosed episodes helped to end my first marriage. Round two has lasted 13 years so far and things are pretty good lately. Meds and therapy along with my diagnosis have contributed to this astounding feat. That being said, there were times when mania and depression before the diagnosis nearly resulted in my current wife leaving me. I know it is hard as hell for her to live with my UPS and downs, but I am really glad she has stuck it out.