Everything happening to us is for a reason. Nothing is by happenstance. It is possible that the things we look in life as a tragic or unfortunate (like having a new therapist without our asking for it) are in fact a blessing in disguise. You won't know until you try and look back. Now you are projecting it as a bad thing. Do not do that! Try to look at everything as a result of Divine providence (as they all are!).