When she does this crying, it is always in relation to her deep sense of guilt and shame, at how she has failed God in some way, she opens the door what triggers her is usually some preacher she has just listened to. It is a vicious circle and it will never stop until she leaves that church, but that will never happen because she is deeply rooted into the abusive system. She staunchly believes it is truth and cannot see that it is a cult.

I know that I cannot help her, as long as she is in this mindset. So leave is what I must and will do, I am done with her.