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Old Jul 11, 2007, 07:07 PM
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I think being with others and just talking is a great way to get to know one another without the pressure of having to "perform" or be at your absolute best

When I get really anxious about something, I try to figure out what would be the absolute worst thing that could happen, then make a plan to be able to deal with it. 99.999999% of the worst thing doesn't ever happen, but hey at least you are prepared After thinking about the worst thing that can happen, then I turn it to the best thing that could happen and it puts a smile on my face and I'm feeling better about the situation!

Oh, and don't forget to breathe!! It's very important!

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