She's something alright. I don't even feel like giving it a special label. She is controlling and manipulative and sometimes outright mean-spirited, but always in a very passive-aggressive way.

And she even brags about bull****ing and manipulating people behind their backs, I have heard that too many times to count. She calls herself "the master" of bull****ing, and constantly 'jokes' about how everything is all about her. She is boldly proud of what she is and feels no remorse. She has never come to me of her own accord to apologize for anything, not once in my entire life.

I have ceased caring about whether or not her mom was good to her, because my mother has not been very good to me for most of my life, and I don't use that as an excuse to mistreat others who are vulnerable. So I don't accept the excuse anymore. I am tired of holding myself to higher standards than I do to others with how they treat me. There is no excuse anymore.