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I'm so sorry you are struggling with this. I don't remember driving for the most part but because I never really have, I didn't really think about it until recently.
I have been in an accident but it was very minor and at a time when my son was just hospitalized and so there was more stress than usual so I think that contributed to it.
I did speak to my T about it but we kind of came to the conclusion that whatever my brain is doing, it is working for the most part (There have been instances that daughter has disagreed though).
I would say if you are afraid to drive, do what you can do to not drive until you are comfortable to do so. I've just not really given a lot of thought to it because I have always kind of ended up places and never really thought about it being odd (which makes me rather odd I think lol).
I agree with Jan that a therapist of some kind might be able to help you figure things out and help you get stronger in taking care of self (I say that with a voice speaking to myself as well because I do struggle with being able to do that and I understand how hard that is...)
Best of luck as you figure things out.