((((((((purplemoon))))))))))) It's so hard to trust someone enough to tell what's going on sometimes when your experience might be that some people turned out to be untrustworthy in the past. I'm sorry if that is the case with you and I'm so sorry that you don't have the support of your family right now.

If you can, make a deal with yourself that above all else, you will tell T as you can. That doesn't mean you have to tell everything all at once. Maybe just give a little bit of info and see how T handles it, see if T is trustworthy.

That's what happened here. T was given tiny bits of information, probably not even information that anyone else would think important, but as T reacted in ways that made her trustworthy, more information was able to be given to her.

Best of luck to you as you figure things out.