Strange you ask this, because I've just willingly put myself on an every two week plan to deal with transference. T doesn't agree, but I insisted. I can only speak from personal anecdotes, but it lessens the bond and pull I feel towards T. The first month and a half were very difficult, almost like grief from death. But the feelings have normalized and feel way more okay than they did before. Very freeing in a way, and I'm not as strung about when T takes a vacation.