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Originally Posted by lolagrace
. I sometimes think if I had a set day/time each week, I would have had a sort of Pavlovian response to that day/time just out of habit. (Yes, I'm using that metaphor very loosely and a bit tongue-in-cheek). I would have perhaps felt possessive of that day/time; It's MINE!! Yadda yadda. This way I've never had that kind of association with any particular day/time equalling therapy. Instead, I arrange my therapy around other aspects of my life.
Perhaps you could try a compromise: maybe set your sessions about 10 days apart-ish. It will create a little more distance between sessions but not a full two weeks and perhaps not having a "set" day and time will help you not fixate on your session schedule as much. Might be worth a try.
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I used to have a set time during the week and then we compromised on every 10 days for June and July. August will start the true spacing. It's all the mom crap. I want her to say she wants to see me as much as I want. but, she's being a strong T. and trying something she thinks will help. I agreed on August because that is when school starts again and I know I will be a lot more busy.