My ex-T used to pretty much ignore me when I arrived, she would open her front door and would not meet my eye, she said nothing. I would walk into her consulting room, she did not speak until I spoke. I know this is a method and I accepted it. My new T greets me with a hi and meets my eye. On my second visit to her she sat down and said 'how are you?' I felt that she really wanted to know how I was. That felt good. She says the same phrase each time I see her, and it feels good every time.