My alcoholic ex also told me that losing me wasn't worth drinking yet every time he tried to quit he relapsed. He never truly got the help.

And everybody is different. Saying it easy to quit because someone else did is unfair. For some it's habit for some life style for some true addiction. We aren't inside the persons head. If this is not something you can accept you have to move on. Suggesting you will control her is pointless. You won't. And saying oh it is easy to quit is a bit ridiculous. We aren't her

I suggest you go to few Alanon meetings for now

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