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Old Jul 17, 2015, 08:28 AM
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Originally Posted by hannabee View Post
So I'm curious how do you know she has been in the mood all day? Something isn't right here. Not to be mean, but you are absolutely sure there is no one else?? Anywhere...work...online....neighbor??? My thought is that if she has NO libido, then she would NEVER be in the mood, right?

Two months without intimacy is waaaaaaaaaaay too long, IMHO. Big hug.
It came out in therapy. She said that she could be in the mood all day long, but when she got home her anxiety would jump up at the thought that I would want to have sex.

I believe it's tied to the anorgasmia I experienced while I was on venlafaxine and subsequent DE, but I can't be 100% sure. Maybe stress from work, but that doesn't jive with her being in the mood all day long. She says she doesn't know why either, so I'm left shrugging.

I'm sure there's nobody else, I can't confirm since I don't do social networking or anything like that, but I trust her and will until proven wrong. But it is a huge red flag huh?
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