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Originally Posted by divine1966
She is resentful or something. I felt no sexual or intimate desire for my ex for awhile and eventually left him. In fact when affection stopped ( we used to be very affectionate) everything slowly died. I resented him for specific reasons that I could name.
He just didn't think it was serious enough to be upset about. He kept thinking it is my libido and going through menopause . In fact I started to think I was just getting older. Boy was I wrong. I am in new relationship and trust me I can't get my hands off him. Nope nothing was wrong with my libido
Something is bothering her. Bet you it's not lack of libido. Find what it is.
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I agree. We've been doing couples' counseling for years now and I've really stepped up in the relationship since my last big crash with major depression.
It could be work stress since her job is really demanding, but that doesn't really jive with her saying she'll be in the mood all day and then lose it when she gets home. That tells me it's something specific related to me.
Without knowing what I'm doing wrong (if anything), I can't correct anything. So we'll keep up the counseling and I'll keep working on me and hopefully it'll come out in the open so we can deal with it before it gets too far along.