[QUOTE=ScarletPimpernel;4563330]I searched transference and scheduling and found this:
Dynamics of Development and the Therapeutic Process

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This was REALLY interesting. The article actually seems to encourage strong transference, especially pertaining to the undesirability of the client getting needs met outside of therapy. I do notice that when I space sessions better, I rely on my own support network more heavily which is the more mature, adult, healthy thing to do IMO.

My issue is with the lack of disclosure about all this. I wasn't warned till it was too late about the risks of transference and attachment. For certain personalities, I think it can be really damaging and leave us worse off than before.