️Hugs. I am sorry you are struggling

I don't want to offend so I am just brainstorming here. Did your appearance change? Your grooming? Habits? Looks? Fragrances you use? Do you work? Contribute financially? Drink? Smoke? Take Meds ( it could be positive and negative).

Work stress... Yeah I don't think so. During school year I work as much as 60-70 hours a week two jobs. My full time one is demanding in every sense and the other one is just tiring . Nope it's not effecting my desire to kiss and hold my bf.

I would agree that libido and stress and being tired could effect desire for sex. Sure I am close to 50 and dont necessarily want sex as much yet it doesn't prevent me from hugs or holding hands. In fact I want TLC more when stressed.

I hope it gets resolved as I know it stresses you out

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