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Originally Posted by divine1966
️Hugs. I am sorry you are struggling
I don't want to offend so I am just brainstorming here. Did your appearance change? Your grooming? Habits? Looks? Fragrances you use? Do you work? Contribute financially? Drink? Smoke? Take Meds ( it could be positive and negative).
Work stress... Yeah I don't think so. During school year I work as much as 60-70 hours a week two jobs. My full time one is demanding in every sense and the other one is just tiring . Nope it's not effecting my desire to kiss and hold my bf.
I would agree that libido and stress and being tired could effect desire for sex. Sure I am close to 50 and dont necessarily want sex as much yet it doesn't prevent me from hugs or holding hands. In fact I want TLC more when stressed.
I hope it gets resolved as I know it stresses you out
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No offense taken at all. I work between 45-50 hours a week. Although my wife does make more than I do, I am make a good wage. I also do the vast majority of the cooking in the house and we share cleaning duties.
Now once I started taking a full dose of venlafaxine, I gained weight. Now that I'm on Viibryd, if I eat more than 1500 calories a day, I'll gain weight. I'm not grossly overweight, but I'm certainly not healthy either. I've wondered if this is playing into it myself.
I dunno. Hopefully whatever it is will come out in time so it can be addressed.