Thanks iwonderaboutstuff. I'm sure I can find the research. Between having MS, where pot is that drug everyone talks up in the medicinal or not benefits and knowing a good deal of pot smokers, I'm well educated on it.

I know of someone in an unhappy marriage who is afraid to leave because their pot smoking could be used against them or afraid it could be.
Epiphany is an understatement about choosing to not be second fiddle to alcohol nor weed.

It is for the OP to decide if this is what he wants in his future.