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Old Jul 17, 2015, 01:07 PM
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Honestly I wouldn't be concerned as much about lack of sex as it sometimes happens but overall lack of affection. No touching even in a friendly manner indicates deeper issues than just problem with sex

Also you talk about your needs met. What about hers? From what you said it seems that her needs aren't met either or she wouldn't be distant.

When my relationship was falling apart all my ex was concerned about was lack of sex.

Instead of working on fixing relationship he was concerned how he is sexually frustrated. Well you can't make a woman to have intimacy. You just can't. You have to fix a relationship.

Maybe instead of worrying about sex or asking for intimacy you could find out what bothers her...

After years of couple therapy you still don't know. Is she hiding something or is therapist not helpful or you not paying attention? My ex told me he had no clues things were so bad when I said I was done. Oh for real.



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