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Originally Posted by lavendersage
My thoughts echo another posts: how young is this person???
50's? Ah, honey, she's got issues and I'm picking up the distinct stench of projection.
Lose this person - she's toxic.
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Hi, I agree, she might be projecting some insecurities onto me since she has gained 8lbs. lately and so she is being more careful about what she eats. She thinks that it has to do with menopause.
She still looks thin to me. Like I said before, I honestly don't think that she meant to hurt me or be mean. I'd not be her friend for sure if I suspected that for a second. I just think that she said that out of ignorance and if she really thought that heavy people were awful, then I doubt that she'd be my friend.
Some people tend to put their foot in their mouths at times, so I'll give her the benefit of the doubt unless this becomes a habit. IF she mentions weight again w/o me bringing it up, then I'll firmly but kindly tell her to not do it again, and I'm sure that she won't.