Irishsj:
After it happened to me, I never even considered it molestation, as I thought it had to be penetration for that. I didn't tell anyone as I didn't know what to call it. Someone told me, oh he just made a pass at you, it's not rape/molesting. He just hit on you. Then why tell me if I told my mom that he'd "kill" her right in front of me, if that was the case????
This man, my mom's b.f. at the time, was violent as they come. He was just plain MEAN I thought. He use to knock the crap out of her continually if she didn't OBEY his command. Bulloney on that. I use to tell him, in my head, if he ever touched her again I'd kill him. But I didn't. I couldn't. I was too afraid. I didn't tell my father either. He would have killed both of them, but he'd have shot my mother FIRST!!! Sometimes these kinds of things happening in your life can leave permanent stigmas that never go away.
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