You're very welcome :-)

I think probably the hardest thing is getting a diagnosis of BPD. I think it took me so long to get diagnosed because of also having ADHD - so I think many of the doctors didn't suspect it because my ADHD symptoms could explain a lot of my behaviour. Your friend may or may not have it. It's hard to know and only a psychiatrist will really know.

Glad I could help :-)
Misfit