My T overall, just based on some of the things I've learned on PC, has pretty loose boundaries for the most part. I'd almost say she had none at all until she brought up a couple a few months back. But she hugs, she will accept things I give her, she has given back to me, and she has NO rules about out of session contact. In fact, if I don't Email her enough, I hear about it! I can call but don't, but we do text/email between sessions. She does, however, maintain strong time boundaries. She doesn't start early, nor does she really end late. Only a few times, when I was upset, if her schedule allowed it.
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