I am allowed to reject whoever I need to reject. And whoever I want to reject. And I am allowed to ignore whoever I want to ignore, for as long as I need or want to ignore them.
And I am allowed to change my mind
How other people deal with that is their issue, not mine. I am not put on this planet to enable other people. However, I may sometimes choose to do so.
Had I made this discovery some years back I would have saved myself much suffering.