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Originally Posted by Shy Introvert
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Hi, sorry for the slow response. I can get tired, depressed, and just plain overwhelmed at times. Anyways, that's great that what other people look like don't matter to you-  It's what's on the inside that counts when it comes to friendship. Now, I can understand why looks would matter to someone who is in a relationship or looking to be in one though.
You're right, it is NOT easy to loose weight, no matter what! I'd have to go on a really strict diet and work out hours each day to loose weight, but even then, I'd never be a certain size since that's not the way that I'm meant to be. Also, you're probably right about what you said about not being able to relate to people who don't work or have kids. Although there are some people who do maybe see those that don't work as being lazy, uneducated, or something stupid like that. |
Hey, no problem about the slow response - I understand.
I get the social anxiety thing with work too, that sounds hard. I've experienced SA and although mine has improved I still find some situations stressful. Volunteering really helped me and allowed me to control the situations I work in, it also helped me meet like minded people.
I'm so glad the responses including mine have helped reassure you most people do not reject friends by their size/looks, that would not have been healthy for you to believe.
Yes, I agree some people will select romantic partners on that criteria, but not everyone by any stretch either. I believe it's what's on the inside that makes us truly beautiful!