No comparison other than you have problems relating to others & having friends...so just threw out the things that were causes in ex-H's example......for you to see if there were any similarities knowing yourself & how you relate to others & the experiences YOU have.

Glad they don't fit & that you have found that other aspects of Asperger's doesn't fit because it's something that is life long, not just at a certain period of time in one's life.

I am sure you will sort it out.....& if all else fails, when you feel you are having a problem, analyze the situation, think of what you would do different the next time & use it as a learning situation. Sometimes that's the best way for us to learn how to better interface with people.