with all due respect .. we all have enough to manage in our life..and if i remember correctly, we asked, so we would know to tone down our conversation, if needed, its a social chat room, have fun chat/didnt think feelings would get hurt, by a age question, guess i didnt think, who knows. we would never intentionally hurt or embarrass anyone, maybe it is best to make a private room , me for one. i am not fond of them, makes me feel not good enough, but i think that may be best, for this situation. thank you fay for your reply always respect your opinion.