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I'm sorry for your struggles. Have you had a sit down talk with your boyfriend about this just to make sure he's aware of his behavior and how hurtful it is for you? I'm not defending him but I can see how a previous girlfriend cheating on him could cause insecurities on his part but he also needs to deal with those emotions and not take them out on you. Aggressive behaviors like that are never acceptable. You've admitted to some yourself. Someone has already mentioned couples therapy which sounds like a good idea. I wish you both the best. You'll find we have a safe and supportive community. I'm glad you've joined us.

I look forward to seeing you around!!!